Regret... One from the Last Page of Notebook

           Everyone should have a Person in their life they can absolutely be Frank with. It really is Blessing to have one. A Person who is a Friend, a Guide, someone who knows us inside out. I am fortunate to have one. I never needed to think twice before talking with the one and I could afford to be bitter with. But with every ticking of clock things change and life does not behave like the assumed constants of an equation even though we wish things to always stay the way they are but instead they turn out to be uncertainties of unsteady phenomenon. the smaller issues of life which were supposed to be fine may no longer be okay with. I end up hurting one unintentionally and trust me there ain't many things as painful than to hurt someone unintentionally. it is always too easy to know how the mistake could have been avoided after committing it. but what if you never considered it to be a mistake at the first place. It is not easy to seek forgiveness sometimes when you don't think you misdid anything. but again in such cases its regret of the situation I put ourselves into becomes more unbearable than anything else. Regret demands change and I tried to change myself to fix things up but that further worsen the situation. the way you didn't want things to change its the some way for other also. I never used to say sorry and suddenly I am saying it makes that person think I am being what i am not. and that sorry didn't serve its purpose. Sometimes someone is too close to say Sorry for... 

But the fact remains that the Sorry is the solution to all the misunderstanding. both of us need to realize that things will change and it is better to adapt ourselves accordingly than to be mad at each other. at the end of the day its our relation what matters than who were at fault. saying sorry is important but what's more important is to mean it. When you mean it you don't repeat it.